Kwiminyaka yakutshanje, inkcubeko yokuhombisa izindlu zangasese eTshayina iza kuchuma ngakumbi. Izibini okanye izibini ziya kuvakalelwa ngokucacileyo ukuba nokuba zingamadoda okanye ngabafazi, ixesha elichithwa kwindlu yangasese liya lisiba lide ngakumbi nangakumbi. Ngaphandle kokuya kwigumbi lokuhlambela, zininzi izinto ekufuneka zenziwe xa zodwa ziphethe iifowuni zazo.
Ngoko ke, kwixesha elitsha, kukho izinto ezibalulekileyo ekufuneka zihlangatyezwe kwigumbi lendlu yangasese.
Ukuthintela isandi kunye nokuvalelwa kwegumbi lendlu yangasese kufuneka kube kuhle, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, izandi ezahlukeneyo zokurhawuzelela kunye nokuduma zihlala zenza abantu bathandabuze kwaye bangakwazi ukuzikhulula ngokupheleleyo. Kule mihla, ubuchwepheshe kunye nokuphila okunoburhalarhume kukho kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye akunakuphepheka ukuba kukho iimeko ezahlukeneyo emathunjini nasesiswini, kwaye iintlobo zevumba nazo zahlukile kakhulu. Ke ngoko, khumbula ukuba ukuba ungavula ucango, ungasebenzisi ucango olutyibilikayo. Kubalulekile ukuphumla nokusebenzisa ifowuni yakho.
Igumbi lokuhlambela kufuneka libe nokwahlukana kweendlela ezi-4, kwaye kwakhona ukwahlukana kweendlela ezi-2, ukuze xa uqubha kwindlu yangasese, kungabikho zimo zinzima apho umntu engxama ukuya kuhlamba, okanye umntu angakwazi ukuzibamba aze afune ukuqubha kwindlu yangasese.
Igumbi lendlu yangasese akufuneki libe likhulu kakhulu. Andazi ukuba bangaphi abantu abaneenkumbulo zokudlala ukuzimela ebuntwaneni babo. Ekugqibeleni bafumana ikona encinci ekhuselekileyo yokuzimela, kodwa ngequbuliso ivumba lendle langena. Oku kufanele kubhalwe kwi-DNA yomntu kangangeebhiliyoni zeminyaka. Kuphela ngokutsala indle kwiikona ezifihliweyo apho bangenakulandelwa zizilwanyana. Ngokwahlukileyo koko, ukuba igumbi lendlu yangasese lingenanto njengesikwere, bangaphi abantu abanokusombulula iingxaki ngokutyibilikayo
Izibane, iirakhi zokugcina ecaleni, izixhobo zokuncedisa, kunye neendlela ezincinci zokuhombisa kwigumbi lendlu yangasese azinakushiywa. Njengoko abantu bechitha ixesha elininzi kwigumbi lendlu yangasese, iimfuno zokusebenza kunye nentuthuzelo ziyanda ngokwendalo. Akukho mfuneko yokukhankanya izibane kunye nemihombiso emincinci, kwaye iirakhi zokugcina ecaleni ziye zaba yeyona mfuneko inkulu. Ukuyeka isixhobo esiphathwayo kunye nephedi kukwayindawo efanelekileyo yokugcina imiqulu yamaphepha. Akukho mntu ufuna ukufumanisa ngokulula ukuba iphepha liphelile okanye ukuba ifowuni yakhe ayinandawo yokubeka kwaye iwela emanzini xa esula, Izixhobo zokuncedisa ngokwemvelo zizitulo zeenyawo, iziqholo, iimbiza zenkunkuma ezigqunyiweyo, kunye neebhrashi zangasese ezilahlwayo. Izitulo zeenyawo zizinto ezingenakushiya emva kokusetyenziswa
Ngokuphathelele ukuhombisa okunzima okungaqhelekanga, kukho imfuneko enkulu yesitya sokuhlambela esincinci kunye neesokhethi ezininzi zombane. Nangona kungekho mkhwa unjalo eTshayina, ukuba wenza ulwahlulo oluneendlela ezine,indlu yangaseseIgumbi ngamanye amaxesha linokuba kufutshane nesitya sokuhlambela. Kubalulekile ukuhlamba izandla zakho kakuhle ngaphambi kokuba uphume kwigumbi lendlu yangasese. Ngubani onesibindi sokuthi awukaze ukrwele okanye ukrwele iphepha lakho ebomini bakho? Ngaphandle kukaWei Xili, kuthekani ukuba ifowuni yakho kunye nephedi kufuneka zitshajwe ngokukhawuleza, Kwixesha elizayo, kunokubakho izixhobo ezahlukeneyo zangasese ezincinci, ngoko ke lungela ngeesokhethi ezininzi.
Kuyimfuneko ukukhetha inkqubo yokupholisa nokufudumeza enemisebenzi emininzi kwifeni yokukhupha umoya. Ezinye iintlobo zeebhafu zinemisebenzi efana nokupholisa, ukomisa, ukufudumeza, kunye nokungenisa umoya. Nangona zibizwa ngokuba ziibhafu, ndicinga ukuba amagumbi endlu yangasese nawo ayayifuna le misebenzi. Kaloku, phakathi ebusika, xa kuvela isisu esibuhlungu ngequbuliso kwaye kufuneka ufumane inqwaba yeempahla kunye neebhulukhwe zokunxiba kwigumbi lokuhlambela, amava awekho mahle kangako. Ehlotyeni, akukho mntu unamava okuhlala kwindlu yangasese ebila yonke indawo, ngoko ke kubiza imali engaphezulu kancinci, Ukuphucula amava obomi bonke kubalulekile.
